Two weeks ago, Mitch Brown, a former professional Australian rules footballer, generated international drama by being the first to publicly come out as bisexual. He went on to become the first openly bisexual man in the history of the Australian Football League (AFL). His announcement has provoked a huge conversation about the culture of the league, especially about hyper-masculinity and homophobia in sports.
Brown only played 94 games for the West Coast Eagles, retiring at 28. He later disclosed that the need to suppress his sexual orientation was a factor in his departure from the sport. In a recent interview with The Daily Aus, relief washed over him as he finally accepted his identity. He told Playwrights Horizons the experience felt extremely liberating in a “hyper-masculine space” that doesn’t easily allow freedom to speak of one’s sexuality.
A Historic Announcement
Mitch Brown’s decision to go public has struck a chord, with many expressing admiration for his bravery. He told NPR that Australia’s response to his coming out was incredible. He put over the amazing support he has gotten from his fans and former players. Surprisingly, big names such as Nic Naitanui, Matt Priddis, Dean Cox and Scott Lycett did not hesitate to contact me to demonstrate their support.
“I’ll stand with you, I’ll walk with you, if that’s what it takes.” – Mitch Brown
Despite all the positivity, Brown still found himself on the receiving end of “a little bit of hate” after making his announcement. So, he tries to remain optimistic. His honesty might encourage other players in the league who are dealing with identity issues themselves.
Challenges in the AFL Culture
In his inaugural speeches, Brown did not shy away from discussing the challenges created by the AFL’s culture of bullying and intimidation. He went on to explain how hyper-masculinity and homophobia have long silenced players from being able to come out. His statement further encouraged AFL clubs to increase their support for prospective and cohort LGBTQ+ players. Such as the likes of Collingwood, Geelong, Adelaide, and Brisbane.
“Is it a fear of being associated with a queer person or a bisexual man? Or is it a fear of people thinking that you are gay or bisexual yourself?” – Mitch Brown
Brown’s impactful testimony brings to the forefront a continued and urgent call for a cultural transformation of the league’s toxic environment. So it was disappointing to see some of the clubs refuse to put out public statements in reaction to his announcement, or even days afterwards. He wants this last minute delay to start broader discussions about acceptance and support.
Looking to the Future
As he looks back on his experiences and where they’ve led him, Brown says that reconnecting with his roots was a journey that took years. Now he’s concerned that the media will begin guessing which player is next to come out. It’s this new focus on outcomes that scares him the most.
“That next player may not even be born yet; they may be just out of primary school or so young that they haven’t even kicked a football yet,” – Mitch Brown
What he’s learned, he knows, is that patience is required from those who are still wrestling with their sexual identities in the sport.
“I would be a hypocrite if I didn’t allow people to take time for this to sink in.” – Mitch Brown
Brown is still focused on creating a culture of inclusivity and acceptance, and he wishes for his players to feel that they can be themselves.
“I don’t have the answers yet, but I won’t stop.” – Mitch Brown
